The Power of Positive Thought

Lately, I've been particularly convicted by quotes I've encountered that underscore the importance of positive thinking. I have a slight tendency to approach things from the perspective of a well-grounded realist (understatement intended). I'm conservative by nature and typically apply my analytical skills toward envisioning all the things that can possibly go wrong with a plan or scheme. This suits me well in my role as project manager; risk management plays a major role in successful project implementation. But I realize that my tendency to focus on the things that can go wrong often means I ignore the likelihood that things will go right.

So it is interesting that notions of positive thinking have been resonating so profoundly with me lately. First, I encountered the following quote in a business magazine I was reading a couple of weeks ago:

"If you knew you could not fail, what would you do?"

This one hit me right between the eyes. So many of my decisions in life have been made based on mitigating the chances of failure. And yet here is encouragement to take an opposite tack, to live life assuming success rather than failure. This is pretty elementary stuff to the optimist or born entrepreneur, but a bit of a stretch for this INTJ project manager. It is a tremendously freeing concept.

And today, I read this quote from Gainsville Health & Fitness' employee handbook, as related in a recent issue of Inc magazine:

"Our greatest power is the freedom to choose; we decide what we do, what we think, and where we go...We can do what we want to do; we can be who we want to be. We develop our own future by applying persistence to the possibilities. Our future is all around us. If we seek, we will find it. If the door is closed, we must knock and keep knocking until it opens. We never give up...."

Whether intended or not, this quote borrows heavily from New Testament principles. In Matthew 7:7, Jesus says, "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you." I've mentioned earlier that I'm no proponent of prosperity gospel - that is, I don't believe God wants Christians to be rich and successful just because they believe. But I don't think that's what's being claimed here. Instead, this quote simply embraces the concept of free will and the impact it can have on our daily lives if we truly own the principle.

My favorite quote of the lot: "We develop our own future by applying persistence to the possibilities." That's powerful stuff.

I'm still not sure what it means for me to live a life that assumes success instead of failure. But I'm thinking about it seriously, and that's very cool.

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A Cool Story About My Son

Some time ago, our family had a chance to visit the San Diego Zoo. If you've been, you know there's a serious amount of walking to be had when touring that place. This posed a bit of a problem for us, as our son had just been diagnosed with JRA (Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis) not long before. Between strollers and shoulder rides, he got around the zoo just fine. But there was one moment that day that cast a pall on an otherwise great time. As we walked, I noticed a little boy merrily flying up and down the trail like greased lightning. It's not that I resented him for his health and happiness, it's just that his athleticism stood in stark contrast to what I anticipated for our son. I just knew my son would never be able to run with such grace and abandon.

Fast forward five years to today. Seems my son had a play date this afternoon with one of his little classmates. Her mom talked to my wife a couple of weeks ago; apparently, her daughter wanted to spend some time with my boy because he is the fastest kid in class - she wanted to practice racing him so she could beat him.

It's funny how life works out. We're not promised prosperity, happiness, or endless good times. But even when life throws us its challenges, we can be confident that all things work to good for those who love our Creator. God is good - we just need to align ourselves with Him to truly understand that.

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